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Viewpoint 1: I think it means that if you want to change your child from something bad you should change yourself first. This means that the problem probably comes from the parents themself, and not the child. That the fault doesnt lay in the child itself, but maybe the parents. It maybe that even the parents doesnt have a fault in this, but we think so. This is up to the individual person to see if its their or their parents fault. It lays way within who they are with in their freetime, and how their parents raise them.